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While checking out a new blog [visit Katherine] - I found a link to this news story about the house approving a move to outlaw flag burning. Katherine and I have similar views on the topic - [see her thoughts here]. Whenever I see anything on this topic - I am reminded of one of my favorite movies, The American President. A great quote can be found in a scene where Michael Douglas (the President) is talking to the press about a photo found of his girlfriend (played by Annette Bening) burning a flag in a protest in her college days.

You want free speech? Let’s see you acknowledge a man whose words make your blood boil who is standing center stage advocating at the top of his lungs that which you would spend a lifetime opposing at the top of yours … The symbol of your country cannot just be a flag. The symbol also has to be one of its citizens exercising his right to burn that flag in protest. Now show me that, defend that, celebrate that in your classrooms. Then you can stand up and sing about the land of the free.

 

The symbol of your country cannot just be a flag. Yes - that’s the lesson the house needs to learn.

About two weeks ago there was an episode on Oprah with author Ayelet Waldman. She had recently written an article in which she boldly claimed, "I love my husband more than I love my children". I think she could have worded it differently - becuase she was saying that her relationship with her husband was the PRIMARY relationship in her home. The relationship with their CHILDREN was the secondary relationship. She says on the show "I am IN love with my husband. I love my children. Which is how it should be." Evidently women everywhere were outraged by this concept. Oprah showed a few brief clips from some women in the audience who blasted Ayelet -- how dare she put her husband before her children? What a horrible mother she must be ...

But I - and Oprah - and a guy from the National Fatherhood Initiative and a few of the women on the show - pretty much agreed with everything Ayelet said. No, I don't have children yet ... but I remember something I heard my pastor say when I was a teenager ... (it was a long time ago - so I'm paraphrasing):

The most important thing a husband and wife can do for their children - other than raising them to love the Lord, obviously, - is to put each other first. To love each other. If a husband and wife put each other first - and their relationship first - it can only mean good things for their children. How can it be bad for chidlren to see their parents in love? To see their parents enjoying each other. To see their parents in a healthy, loving, devoted relationship.

We watched one of our friends dogs this weekend ... a black mixed-breed named Chloe. We joke that she's MacGyver's girlfriend - they get together as often as they can, and quite frequently have sleep-overs when their owners go out of town. And as some ladies are, she tends to lead MacGyver astray. As in - to bad behavior and craziness that he normally doesn't partake in. Like - destroying his bed. Or chewing up all his toys. Or - the latest - escaping from our very well-fenced in back yard.

I can see you now!

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My LASIK eye surgery was last Thursday ... and it went perfectly. A VERY lengthy description of the surgery and the past few days is in the extended entry ;)

MacGyver versus Santa

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Guess who won?

Restroom Vending Machines

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Why do all restroom vending machines carry feminine hygiene products from the 1950's? Are most women always prepared, and therefore never use the machines, and therefore the stock hasn't needed to be replenished in 50 years? On Tuesday we had a day-early surprise on our vacation and my supplies were in our checked luggage. So, I popped 25 cents into the handy restroom vending machine, and to my surprise a huge cardboard box with a product that surely would have mopped up my kitchen floor popped out. I might as well have picked up a bath towel in the gift shop!!

It's been so hectic in Lacyville here lately. What with dealing with my grandfathers cancer diagnosis and surgery, MacGyvers mite infection, our upcoming two week vacation ... we haven't had much time to just "hang out".

Don't you always find that it's during these busy times that things go wrong. On the day we were supposed to drive 3 1/2 hour to see my grandfather, the brakes on the Escape suddenly starting making this scraping sound. So off to the mechanic we go - and there went $$$. Last week, our washing machine decided that it wanted to keep the water in the machine. Why spin? We've been tricking it into spinning for the last week -- by doing the regular cycle for washing and then switching it to the delicate cycle and doing that spin cycle twice. We just have not had the time to go looking for a washer - and we won't be here for the next two weeks to have it delivered. Sooo we're trying to make do until we return in October.

We also have several relatives down in Florida dealing with hurricane hell. My great aunt has lived on the beach in Cocoa Beach for practically her entire life. Growing up, I used to spend summers down there - it was great her house was right on the beach. You walk off her back porch, and you're on the beach. They had a forced evacuation last week - they were told the storm surges alone would go over their homes. Get your insurance papers and family mementos, and be out by 2 PM. She went to stay with her daughter ... who lives in Melbourne, FL. THey were in the path of the hurricane as well ... but only lost a section of their roof and several trees. My aunt was finally able this week to go down and check on her house ... it was flooded. Pretty much everything mildewed and ruined ... all her furniture, appliances - damaged beyond repair. Now we just pray that her insurance carrier will do what they're supposed to!

My grandfather is doing amazingly well. He has surprised all his doctors (and his family!) with his quick recovery. The surgery he had is a brand new procedure ... so both his surgeons were just so pleased that he has come through so well. He still has to go see the oncologist next week ... but they don't think she will recommend any chemo or radiation. They just want to have him in every few months for a new set of xrays. It is simply a miracle. When we first learned about his cancer, the pulmonologist told them he had maybe 6-9 months. It was that bad. Thats why I say it was a miracle. Because less than three weeks later, he has a cutting-edge surgery with not one, but two very talented surgeons and they are able to remove all the cancer. It hadn't metastasized. I believe God truly had his hand over my Grampy; miracles aren't just when someone is inexplicably healed; sometimes miracles occur in the form of just making a cancer treatable.

As for MacGyver, he is almost back to normal. His behavior has improved dramatically; he's running, eating, and more playful; his hair is growing back quickly in some places, and not so quickly in other places (his tail is really slow in growing back hair!). But I think we've gotten the infection taken care of. We go back to the vet tomorrow afternoon, to see if he needs another shot of Ivermectin. AND to see if we still have to do the baths every two days. Let me just say thats been such a joyful experience. He hates water, doesn't like the medicated soap, and he especially doesn't like it that we have to leave the soap on him for 10 minutes before rinsing him off. Soooo, maybe we can get down to once every 3 days. Nonetheless, I'm just so glad he's feeling better and not constantly scratching and biting himself.

And now, I'm off to try and trick the washer into doing a load of laundry that we need for our trip next week! ;)

:shocking: This will shock you: :wide-eyed:

We're on dial-up internet access. And it's not even GOOD dial-up. We're doing good to get upwards of 30KBS. Yes, that's right. 30KBS. :headache:

WHY are we not using DSL or cable?

Blooming Hydrangeas

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Is this not the most beautiful hydrangea bloom you've ever seen?

There's just one tiny problem.

Four years ago today, I was in D.C. visiting Steve. We'd been long-distance dating for over a year, although we had known each other for at least 4 years (3 1/2 of which he was still living in England). The constant leaving each other at airports thing was getting harder and harder. We had been talking about getting married and all that would mean. Me leaving a job in surgery that I loved in order to move to D.C. (9 hours away from my family). Was he committed to living in the states permanently (because while I like visiting England, I would never want to live there)? Would we try to move closer to my family eventually? Were we ready to go through the horrendous INS greencard process? (After Steve finally got his greencard, I remember telling a friend that I didn't see how people who DIDN'T love each other tremendously could ever make it through the INS process. These people who supposedly get married just to get the greencard ... they must be on crack thinking it's an easy thing. It's a very long process and WHY would you put yourself through that if it wasn't for someone that you loved with every fiber of your being? )

Back to the 4th of July, 2000.

We had planned to spend the 4th in downtown D.C., tour some museums, and then stick around for the spectacular fireworks display. So, July 4th, 2000, we hopped on the subway and went downtown early in the day. Steve was being particularly attentive to his backpack - never letting it out of his sight the whole day. That night, we went to the Lincoln Memorial to claim our spot on the steps to warch the fireworks. (The entire stretch from the Lincoln Memorial past the reflecting pool to the Washington Monument was PACKED with people). The fireworks started around 9:30 and lasted for almost a full hour. They have some of the best fireworks - really beautiful ones that just go up one right after another - there's no break. Everyone should go see the fireworks there at least once! The finale started, everyones faces are lit up by the fireworks in the sky, and as the last one goes up, Steve has moved down in front of me and asks me to marry him.

I said yes ... :heartbeat: The mass of people around us saw him proposing ... and cheered for us! (And now my English husband has something to celebrate on July 4th!)

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