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Misuse of the Law

// February 28th, 2004 // 6 Comments » // tagged:

Did anyone see the Oprah show from last week about the Marcus Dixon rape case in Georgia? A black 18 year old and a white 15 year old had sex ... and the girl claims rape a few days later. The show wasn't actually about the rape ... because the jury found Dixon NOT GUILTY of the rape after only 20 minutes of deliberation (and I agreed with their findings after listening to his story and the girls story. I think she was embarassed to have had sex with him, her father was a blatant racist, and so she comes up with the rape accusation. And for me, as a woman, to think this - that says a lot. And it says a lot that the entire jury unanimously agreed on the not guilty verdit. And it says a lot that the Oprah audience was supportive of Dixon, and not the girl accusing him of rape. When women are supporting the guy -- I think thats a good clue about who is lying and who is being truthful.) So - Dixon is found not guilty of the rape, but the DA had put a "safety measure" charge onto the case. The show was about a charge that the DA attached to the case, as a "backstop" so that if Dixon was aquitted of the rape, he would still automatically get a mandatory 10 year prison sentence for "aggravated child molestation". (The law could be applied in this situation because Dixon was 18 and his accuser was 3 months shy of being 16 -- and the law states that if there is injury in sex between a minor and an adult, the "aggravated child molestation" charge could be applied and it carries a mandatory 10 year prison sentence.) The girl was a virgin when she and Dixon had what the jury termed consensual sex - and the DA used her torn hymen as the injury necessary to use this charge. This law was created to protect CHILDREN from ADULT sexual predators. It wasn't designed to punish teenagers having consensual sex. Do I agree that a 15 year old should be having sex? No ... but I also don't think Dixon should be spending 10 years of his life in prison. Remember, the jury found him NOT GUILTY of the rape. So he's spending 10 years in prison for a crime he wasn't convicted of. The aggravated child molestation law is what is keeping him in prison. Bryant Gumbel interviewed the DA who prosecuted the case ... and he insists he wasn't being overzealous (even though this is the ONLY time this law has been applied to teenage consensual sex in the entire history of Georgia law). Oprah had several of the jurors on the show - and none of them were aware that even though they found him not guilty of rape that he would still have to go to prison simply based on the fact of their ages. Dixon's family now has a great team of lawyers, working pro-bono, who presented his case before the Georgia supreme court for appeal. They are hoping the child molestation charges can be overturned and Dixon can be released from prison. He's already been in prison for over a year and if the molestation charges were dropped, he would be free to go home. The lawyers on the other side just can't seem to get over the fact that the jury found him not guilty of the rape. That is a moot point now - but they argued about that the entire show and Oprah had to keep shutting them down because they were basically wanting to retry the case on Oprah. I was just appalled at learning about this case - and I'm sure things like this happen all over the country and we don't know about them because they aren't on Oprah or splashed on the news everywhere. Laws are put in place for a purpose ... and when overzealous prosecutors misuse those laws it does more than punish just that one person. It undermines the legal system and all it stands for. These laws should be used for their intended purpose -- to protect children from child molesters. It shouldn't be there to make sure a DA gets a prision sentence when he can't make his case for a jury. Which is exactly what happened here. He attached that charge so that Dixon would still go to prison, no matter what, even if the jury did find him not guilty of the rape.

Re-Reading

// February 24th, 2004 // No Comments » // tagged:

:book: I started re-reading the 20+ books in J.D. Robb's "In Death" series last week. I love series books -- it's fun to get to know the characters over lots of books. I just love those books - great murder mysteries. All of the "In Death" books are set in the year 2059 + ... and Roberts vision of what the future will be like is compelling reading. If you've never read J.D. Robb -- you should try them! You'll like them! The first book in the series is Naked In Death! (For those of you who don't know, J.D. Robb is Nora Roberts - but I think she writes better when she's writing under the Robb pseudonymn. ) Re-reading these books is a prime example of why I like to buy books that I loved reading. After a year or so, I can re-read them and enjoy them just as much. It's great to have books on hand to read whenever I get the yen to -- which is quite often. I love coming home after work and being able to sit down and read for an hour or so. It's so relaxing to me. What do you like to do when you come home after work - or after a long stressful day with the kids?

Happily Ever After

// February 23rd, 2004 // 2 Comments » // tagged:

I like it when a TV show wraps up with neat little bows around all the storylines. It's even better when there is promise of a movie and they STILL wrap things up with bows. <-- DISCLAIMER --> If you haven't watched the series finale of SATC, stop reading now if you don't want to be spoiled. <-- --> Miranda ... It's only taken seven years, but Miranda's heart finally grows up. I think Magda was right when she said Mir could love and she showed it in selflessly offering to have S teve's mom live with them after her stroke, and then even bathing her after an especially sad episode of incoherence. Miranda's is probably the most realistic ending .... living in cool house in Brooklyn with her family. Still working, but having a real life. Charlotte ... it was so thoughtless of that couple to use Charlotte and Harry just to see New York - when they knew they weren't going to let them adopt the baby. :cry: I loved the scene where Charlotte is the one comforting Harry -- and she is sure that that wasn't their baby anyway. And when Harry comes in with the envelope and picture -- we all just knew it was the perfect baby for them! I'm sure we'll get to see the munchkin in the movie. Samantha ... loved Smith telling Sam he'd gone to counseling to help him deal with her having cancer and then sending her those not-yet-blooming flowers; it was great having Sam call Smith and tell him she wanted him to not be with other people; and Smith just keeps on getting sweeter by flying back to NY from his movie set just to tell Sam he loved her! Carrie ... I'm glad they sewed up her storyline as they did. She needed come to the realization that Aleksander and Paris weren't for her -- all on her own. I don't think he meant to slap her or break the necklace ... but he's still a selfish egotistical guy who, like his ex said, didn't really want Carrie to have her own career (hence guilting her into not going to her party so she could go to his with her, and asking her to movie to Paris in the first place - he obviously didn't take her work seriously). So it was great to have her leave him all on her own, without any outside influences (i.e. Big!) Thankfully, Big didn't come into the picture until she had already decided to end things with Petrovsky. He comes in at just the right moment, and from that moment we knew things were going to be ok. He gets choked up FINALLY telling her she is THE ONE. Yes! Big and Carrie forever! :heartbeat: We finally find out Big's name -- JOHN -- and learn he's selling the house in Napa and moving back to the Big Apple to be with Carrie. Could it be? A happy ending for all? It will be interesting to see what they do in the movie now that all the girls are in relationships that, in the series finale, have led us to believe will be long-lasting and GOOD relationships. OK that's all of my thoughts. Good bye to another favorite tv show. There are too many goodbyes this season: SATC, Friends, Frasier, Angel (any news about Angel maybe being picked up on UPN ??). And I still miss Buffy.

Crazy For You

// February 20th, 2004 // No Comments » // tagged:

Last night was opening night for this year's musical, Crazy for You. We've got a great cast and crew - I'm the stage manager this year. (Last year we did Meet Me in St. Louis ... I was the propmistress. Great title.) There are some really great numbers this year -- Slap That Bass has great choreography, I've Got Rhythm is of course a fun number, and then you have the heroine singing the romantic Someone to Watch Over Me. Opening Night always seems to erase all the stress and frustration brought on by all the rehearsals and prep-work. We were all about to tear our hair out after tech-rehearsal on Monday night (that's when we do the run-through with microphones, lighting, sound effects, etc. ) - I got home a little after midnight and the sound guys didn't leave til around 1:30 AM. It was a LONG night! So last night, when the show went so well -- the audience enjoyed the show -- and we didn't have any major problems -- it was a great feeling! It was all worth it!

The Passion

// February 19th, 2004 // No Comments » // tagged:

Our church has bought a few hundred tickets to Mel Gibson's new movie, The Passion, and we showed the preview today at our weekly downtown business lunch. It was only a few minutes long, but I already know that this movie is going to impact people's lives in a way no other movie has. I guess maybe because it's not so much a movie; It's a statement, a portrayal of the last 12 hours before the crucifixion. You cannot watch this film passively, or at least I couldn't. There are usually around 250-300 people at our weekly lunch, and today we had that normal crowd. The room was completely silent for the whole preview and afterwards still silent. I'm a Christian, and seeing just the preview of this movie made my eyes tear up and my heart break and yet at the same time be excited that this film has been made. Kudos to Mel Gibson for having the guts to make this film. I wonder what a non-believer will think of the film? I would find it hard to believe that anyone could watch it and still be sure about their non-belief? I've seen various interviews and articles about this movie, but didn't really know what to think of it before today. In one interview, the actor who portrays Jesus, Jim Caviezel, has been quoted saying "I'm interested in letting God work through me to play this role ...... I don't want people to see me. All I want them to see is Jesus Christ." It will be interesting to see the effects of this movie on people, Christians and Non-Christians alike.

Big is Back!

// February 16th, 2004 // 6 Comments » // tagged:

Loved last night's SATC episode. I can finally see the light at the end of the long, boring Aleksander Petrovsky tunnel. Not loving that relationship. Then Big shows up, in his big black shiny car .... and he couldn't get a word in edgewise because Carrie was so afraid of what he might say -- what really, deep inside, she knew he was there to say. What she's been waiting for him to realize for 6 years. But we know it's going to happen. She's going to end up with Big ... Finally! A Happy Ending!! All the girls giving him the approval? And him saying that basically any guy is going to come in fourth next to them -- sigh. He gets it - they get it - and Carrie's going to get it next week!! Sigh. I HEART BIG.

Why

// February 16th, 2004 // 4 Comments » // tagged:

Why do you blog? What drives you to get online and post entries? Do you sometimes feel like just shutting down your site? If so, what stops you from doing that?

Why God Created Children

// February 15th, 2004 // 1 Comment » // tagged:

WHY GOD CREATED CHILDREN Whenever your children are out of control, you can take comfort from the thought that even God's omnipotence did not extend to His own children. hehe!! After creating heaven and earth, God created Adam and Eve. And the first thing he said was "DON'T!" "Don't what?" Adam replied. "Don't eat the forbidden fruit." God said. "Forbidden fruit? We have forbidden fruit? Hey Eve...we have forbidden fruit!!!!!" "No Way!" "Yes way!" "Do NOT eat the fruit!" said God. "Why" "Because I am your Father and I said so!" God replied, wondering why He hadn't stopped creation after making the elephants. A few minutes later, God saw His children having an apple break and He was ticked! "Didn't I tell you not to eat the fruit?" God asked. "Uh huh," Adam replied. "Then why did you?" said the Father. "I don't know," said Eve. "She started it!" Adam said "Did not!" "Did too!" "DID NOT!" Having had it with the two of them, God's punishment was that Adam and Eve should have children of their own. Thus the pattern was set and it has never changed.

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// February 12th, 2004 // No Comments » // tagged:

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Unusual Valentines Gift

// February 10th, 2004 // No Comments » // tagged:

Awww .... are you still looking for a gift for your sweetheart for Valentines Day? Here is the perfect gift. Doesn't it just make your heart go pitter patter?